Being empathic means many things but for certain, we can sense the emotions of others. Often, we take on their emotions and without clear energetic barriers, we can internalize them, hold onto them and carry the burden for the other people in our lives. Sometimes we don't even know when the emotions we are feeling are ours or not.
When I was younger, this made me a magnet for people who were struggling. They'd often say that they felt so much lighter after having spoken with me. Similarly, I could ask the right questions, make the right moves to help people because I could sense their burdens. It was a scary time for me. I was very new at understanding this gift and felt at times sickened physically by it.
For a period of time, I closed all of my senses to this energy of the world. I became a more distant being- wearing a lot of armor. This was no solution as I no longer felt authentic or real in situations- even if I felt protected.
In time, I discovered simple ways to set up barriers, to clear stagnant energy and to navigate with a very clear sense of my self in energetic waters. I still feel so much, and as a mom of boys, it is even more important to have good hygiene around boundary setting.
My oldest is a teenager now and there are so many turbulent moments- I find myself more challenged than ever to keep the signals clear.
If you find yourself surrounded by emotional teenagers- try out some simple tricks to ground and cleans yourself, but also to create a little bubble where your feelings are not co-mingling with theirs in a way that causes disruptions to your ability to navigate.
Obsidian, smoky quartz and amethyst are my favorite gems for protecting against negative energy and bringing a sense of calm and focus. My mom picked up this cute elephant obsidian for me. It reminds me of Ganesha- the remover of obstacles. Cleanse your crystals regularly to keep them clear. I use a water bath with rosemary essential oil.
Terrashield - this oil is as good for keeping bugs away as it is for creating a clean energetic boundary. I apply it on my forearms in a downward slash and along my ankles. Diffuse it to release bad dreams.
On Guard- Apply a drop to your heart center for protection of the emotions. This is both strengthening for your immune system and strengthening for your heart shield so as not to pick up too many energies from others.
My son was traveling to a rough part of Boston for baseball and I used the same protocol on him, applying a bit of on guard to the base of his skull as well and diluting with fractionated coconut oil. That was the day he went 9-9 at bat!
Parenting is difficult at times, picking up the emotions of our children or others can leave us exhausted and unable to help them navigate the changes they are going through as they approach more mature problems and situations in life. Take care to clear your energy, put up your shields (prior to interacting for the day.. I recommend right after a shower) and breathe a little easier.
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Rest is essential to every part of our functioning. We push more than we should. As the sun brings more intensity to New England, the temptation is to continuously move and put more projects on the table. The work inside is expanded to outside, the sports are in full motion and our minds are abuzz with tasks and completion.
As humans, we somehow feel like we aren't allowed to relax during the week, during the sunshine hours- for some of us- in life. Soothe the spirit, the body, the mind and the energy by allowing rest instead. Just 20 minutes can allow greater presence and joy in the hours that follow.
Serenity oil, lavender, roman chamomile, balance, copaiba and breathe oils are perfect for nurturing a restful night sleep, but you can also breathe them in and allow a peaceful nap in the sunshine or the shade, on the couch, or on a blanket in the yard. Listen to birdsong and feel the breeze. I love naps in sunshine as it allows recharge and more efficient awakening... while gaining Vitamin D, too.
Invite in the celebration of life, honor the body and the universe for this day. Close your eyes and recharge for a while.
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Confidence means many things to many different people. There's the kind that helps you solve a tough math problem, work up the courage to ask someone on a date, the kind needed for trying out a new skill or scaling a mountain. For women, we often think about body confidence, too.
One thing that can really crush confidence at the onset is a true, gut wrenching challenge... the kind we didn't plan on. Recently, I was hit with one of those... I'll keep it private as it's not just my story to tell, but.. the first few weeks I wrestled with self doubt, fears, exhaustion, foggy brain, emotional rollercoasters- you name it.
I woke up one day and looked around at all of the tasks and jobs, the hats, the hobbies, the hustles. I realized that to survive right now, I have to focus. I need to cut back the layers of my life and get down to the very core of what is important.
I decided workouts weren't optional. Every day, I need to start my day with movement. By focusing on my workouts and adding in a more balanced, nourishing diet, I was able to regulate my mood. Each time I stepped on the treadmill expecting to cry off my stress and collapse, I put one foot in front of the other and sweat it out instead.
I need connection to people who truly love me and have my back. Every morning that I workout, I see my mother. We workout together through Zoom- even though she is 6 hours away, she is with me. It's a mini hug and a way to wrap family into my routines. We meditate for four minutes, using my Beachbody On Demand account- taking turns sharing about what we are doing, problem solving, crying a little and laughing a little, too. I reach out to own of my best friends, Owen, or hear from him every day, too. It's comforting to have a simple text to look forward to. While there are a few people who've been instrumental in supporting us, my sister in law, Steff, is definitely one of them. She has been my go to for all things I need removed from my plate to function as a mother, a teacher and a human right now. Without being able to connect to people who love us, we wouldn't be able to ask for help when we need it. I've needed her support to transport the kids sometimes, she's cleaned my house and brought me a hot cup of coffee when I struggled at work. God, I am grateful to these people.
I reach for my oils. These babies are jam-packed with the healing power of nature. Even as a little girl, I loved the flowers, the trees, the forest and the magic that they brought me. Now, I put a few drops of oil into my diffuser, or add some to my water. I love the motivate blend for uplifting my mood, for focusing my confusion into a more courageous outlook. My son loves the Brave roller, too. We use it when he faces his own challenges (think batting against a fast pitcher or for test taking).
When I'm sore from my workout- it's deep blue rub and as I move more and more, I am feeling less and less discomfort. I am actually not embarrassed of being photographed in my sports bra for this article. I used to be proud of my abs- the strength they brought me after delivering myself on Petey. But, they've been hiding under layers of self protection, toxic foods and layers of clothing. The focus on my self care has helped me to literally strengthen more core, and figuratively do the same.
So, this is not a post to brag about my success or to show off my sports bra. This is a post to encourage you to care for yourself when you are most challenged. When you want to curl in a ball and die, or sleep the day away to avoid it all- that is when we most need to find the activities and people who nourish us. That is when movement can help us find a courage we didn't know we had. That is when we have to say no and set up boundaries we didn't put in place before. The confidence to voice what it is we most need and what we most need to clear from the plate, is a glorious side effect of growing through challenge.
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Does springtime feel a little dormant for you? Have you begun to pick up on the longer days and use that vibrant energy to lift you up? Need a little boost? This oil blend is like taking a tuber, planting it and watering it in a warm window sill or clipping some forsythia and forcing it to bloom. Use it to raise your frequency, feel alert and imagine sunnier days ahead.
4–6 squares white coconut milk soap base
4 drops Grapefruit oil
¼ teaspoon Maca powder
This recipe is from DoTERRA DIY blog. Check out more on www.doterra.com
Looking for a festive and fun way to spread Christmas cheer? Try this fun candy cane scrub made with Peppermint essential oil. You will only need a few ingredients for this festive scrub, and it can easily be customized with your favorite colors and essential oils.
¾ cup white sugar
½ cup Fractionated Coconut Oil
12 drops Peppermint oil
Skin safe food coloring
Tip: In place of white sugar, you could use sea salt. In place of Fractionated Coconut Oil you could use almond oil, grapeseed oil, or olive oil.
If heavy, greasy meals are your weakness when dinnertime rolls around, we’ve got the perfect recipe to help you keep things light and healthy—without sacrificing flavor. This artichoke spinach pizza with Rosemary oil and Lemon oil will provide the delicious flavor you’re looking for without making you feel weighed down afterward.
Ready in less than 20 minutes, you’ll be on your way to a scrumptious pizza that you won’t feel guilty about.
For the pizza:
Pizza dough (store-bought or homemade)
2 teaspoons olive oil
¼ teaspoon Italian seasoning
2 tablespoons grated Parmesan cheese
2 ounces chopped fresh spinach
1½ chopped leeks
⅓ cup white beans
14.5-ounce can quartered artichoke hearts
Sliced fresh mozzarella
Salt and pepper to taste
For the sauce:
1 teaspoon lemon juice
2 tablespoons grated Parmesan cheese
2 drops Rosemary essential oil
2 drops Lemon essential oil
1 clove garlic
⅓ cup cream cheese
½ cup white beans (cannellini work great)
Salt and pepper to taste
Milk to thin sauce, if desired
Want to enjoy the lovely aroma of a perfume without having to worry about all the nasty chemicals that might be lurking in its fragrance? Try making your own! This DIY perfume only requires three ingredients, plus it uses the bright, cheery aroma of Grapefruit oil to keep you smelling fresh all day.
2 tablespoons beeswax
2 tablespoons Fractionated Coconut Oil
20 drops doTERRA Grapefruit essential oil
Credit: From DoTERRA Blog:
As a woman navigating two chronic pain conditions and the mother of two boys (one with asthma and allergies) I have been incorporating healing practices and natural solutions into our lives for a long time. When we discovered the impact of reducing our toxic load through essential oils, the benefits of 100%pure, therapeutic grade oils and the beauty of no side effect remedies, DoTerra oils became a lifestyle for us. To get the most from our oils, we make cleaners, body washes, treatments for ailments, energetic and emotional rollers and just about anything you can imagine. We are here to help you navigate the overwhelming options and start taking your natural healing path one step at a time. Love, LeeAnn